It’s time to sit down with a cup of coffee and text your friend “You won’t believe it, I met someone.”
Love coaching for independent single women ready to create the relationship they want.
You love your life. You’ve built a career you are proud of and that fulfills you. You have incredible friends, passions, and a life that feels rich and full.
And yet, there’s a quiet longing.
You picture yourself coming home to someone who truly sees you. Cooking dinner together, talking about your day, laughing about something that happened at work. Waking up on a Sunday morning with no rush, just warmth, coffee, and the easy silence of feeling completely at peace with someone.
You want a relationship—but not just any relationship.
You want a love that feels safe, deep, inspiring, and effortless. A love where you don’t have to overthink every text, where you don’t feel like you have to shrink yourself to be chosen. Where being together feels like home.
But despite all your efforts it’s not happening
No one excites you
The dating pool looks bleak. You start to wonder if all the good men are taken—or if they even exist.
You attract the “wrong” ones
You have these passionate affaires with men who end up being unavailable, unwilling to commit or not interested as you. You find the “nice” guys boring.
You’re not even sure you want a relationship
Maybe you’ve been burned before. Maybe you fear losing yourself. Maybe you love your freedom too much to risk it.
And yet, there’s a part of you that wants this.
You want to know what it’s like to sit next to someone on the couch, watching a movie, holding hands—thinking, This is it. This is what I’ve been waiting for.
You want love that feels different.
And here’s the truth: it can be different.
Love isn’t about luck. It’s about getting every part of you—both the part that wants love and the part that secretly fears it—on the same page.
Creating a healthy, loving relationship doesn’t require you to change who you are or settle for less than you want. It’s not about forcing something to happen.
It’s about rewiring how you approach love.
It’s about:
Feeling confident & worthy
So you stop second-guessing if you’re “too much” or “not enough.”
You pick men who see your value and choose you.
You keep your balance in dating and once in the relationship.
Trusting yourself
So you know when someone is truly right for you (and when to walk away).
You feel comfortable expressing yourself and moving deeper into the relationship.
Mastering your mind and your emotions – so dating no longer feels like a rollercoaster.
Owning your power in love
Shift from waiting and hoping to actively creating the relationship you desire.
Stop letting past disappointments or fears dictate your future.
Get crystal clear on what you truly want
With this deep relationship with yourself and a supportive mindset, you’re not just ready for love—you’re magnetic to it.
Here’s what happens when you do this work
You increase your chances of meeting your person —without exhausting yourself in the process.
You feel at ease in dating—no more spiraling when things don’t go as planned.
You stop choosing emotionally unavailable men and start attracting partners who make you feel safe and loved.
You have a rock solid foundation for a healthy, lasting relationship
This is possible for you. Not years from now—now.
Ready?
What my clients are saying
“For the first time I’m in a relationship where I feel both incredibly attracted by my partner & comfortable to express myself”
M.
A container for transformation
1:1 Coaching | 6 Months | Deep, Lasting Change
This is not surface-level dating advice. This is a complete rewiring of how you approach love.
We meet weekly via video calls. You’ll also get short, powerful home practices to anchor your transformation in real time.
We uncover the patterns, fears, and beliefs holding you back—then we rewrite them.
Through a blend of psychology, neuroscience, mindfulness, and body-based techniques, we heal past wounds, dissolve insecurities, and shift the way you attract and relate to men.
Why this works:
Mind Work → Change the way you think, rewrite limiting beliefs, and rewire your mindset for love.
Body Work → Heal emotional wounds, regulate your nervous system, and build unshakable self-trust.
The result? A profound shift in how you show up in dating and relationships—from day one.
What my clients are saying
“After a string of painful relationships with unavailable men, I changed how I saw myself and shifted my patterns. I’m now in a peaceful, loving relationship.”
Lily
Client love
“Everything I've worked with Pauline is coming together in my new relationship.”
— Anne-Sophie.
“Working with Pauline helped me see my own worth and what I had to bring to a relationship. I stopped relying on men to confirm I was lovable.”
— Clémentine
“I was able to finally recognise that I wanted to be in a relationship, without feeling that it was a sign of weakness or dangerous.”