Hi, I’m Pauline
My mission is to help high-achieving women have it all.
I always have been empowered, determined, going for what I wanted, and usually getting it.
Except in my relationships…
For years I struggled. I kept falling for unavailable men, going through cycles of passionate affairs only followed by drama and despair. I wondered what was wrong with me, why I couldn’t manage to form secure relationships…
At 39, as I was almost giving up, when I finally understood: I was chasing unavailable men because I had subconsciously learned I had to fight for love, I had to prove my worth.
This was a wake-up call.
I decided to fall in love with myself.
I started treasuring my gifts, my very unique qualities. I became friend with my body, all parts of it. I started taking in compliments instead of automatically belittling them. I treated myself with love, listening more and more to my needs and to my intuition.
And slowly things started shifting. My perception. People’s feedback. Life…
This radical transformation led me to change careers.
After 15 years of helping people to survive I decided to help people to thrive, through loving themselves and creating healthy relationships. I embarked on a yearlong coaching certification. Throughout this course I discovered and peeled off more layers that had been blocking me from finding love: deep unconscious beliefs I had around love (that needing love was a weakness); fears (of real intimacy, of losing my freedom in a relationship…).
From then on I could not settle anymore. For anyone who was not ready for me. For anyone that had doubts.
And soon good men started showing up in my life. I could see them. I could express my interest. I could come close…
And naturally I met my partner.
I want that for you.
Finding your partner shouldn’t feel hard or mission impossible, there is a way to be loved exactly as you are.
Let me show you how…
More about me
I grew up around the world in Finland, Brazil, Nigeria, France and Japan.
Love coaching is my third career.
In another life I was managing humanitarian programs in war-torn countries (Darfur, Congo, Colombia…). But after years in the field stress took a toll… and I felt the need to stop and take care of myself.
I left for India to study and become a yoga teacher. What was supposed to be a short break turned into 15 months in an ashram, living with a spiritual community, studying further and teaching yoga.
But I couldn’t give up my passion to make a change… I managed to combine my two passions while organizing the first yoga teachers training in a prison (NY, USA) and another one for women in Palestine, aiming to improve the wellbeing in a community in need of inner peace.
I now live in Brazil, in a small village in the mountains, with my partner and our 2 dogs.
Trainings & certifications
Sex, Love & Relationships coaching certification with the Tantric Institute for Integrated Sexuality (2020)
Biodynamic Breathwork Trauma Release System BBTRS (Bali, 2018)
Spiritual Sexual Shamanic training level 1 (ISTA, International School of Temple Arts, Brazil 2019)
Spiritual Sexual Shamanic training level 2 (ISTA, International School of Temple Arts, Brazil, 2018)
Vipassana meditation course (India, 2015)
Certified Kids Yoga teacher (Little Flowers, NYC, USA, 2014)
Certified 200hrs Hatha Yoga teacher (Sivananda, India, 2013)
Master’s degree in international humanitarian aid (2003)
Master’s degree in international law (2001)
“I learnt how to look at available men with new eyes. This led me to give a chance to a man that I would not have considered before.”
— L., France
And you, when will you begin that long journey into yourself?
Rumi
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